Friday, January 22, 2010

So, Disney World was SUPERFANTASTICAWESOME! LOL Yep, that's the only word to describe it. It was definitely too short though, so next trip will have to be a few days longer! Short version: Left Fri evening, stayed through Wednesday morn. We rode rides, saw shows (even participated in a couple!), got turned into beautiful princesses, and had some yummy meals. If you're ever planning a trip to WDW, do the meal plan. It is definitely worth it. We had NO meals under $75 (most were well over $100) but each one only cost an average of $35 with the plan.

The girls picked out some pretty cool souvenirs. Of course, Monster picked out "Pirate Princess" ears & Monkey had to have fuzzy ears made of the brightest pink I have ever seen! I chose an aqua Tinkerbell set, while Hubby stuck with classic black Mickey. I also picked up some STITCH hands, yep STITCH, to play with Beast. Oh, and of course we started the girls trading pin collections! Monster even traded for a limited edition Cinderella cast part pin (1 of only 1500!).  Monkey of course collected Ariels.

Most of you have already checked out the awesome pics (and some of the sillier ones too) and commented, so thanks! The girls had a great time, Hubby & I LOVED it, & Steven brought his girlfriend along too. It was SOOOOO much fun & we made some lifelong memories. Lots of firsts and many WE HAVE TO DO THIS AGAIN moments. I swear, if I hear "YOU ARE THE BESTEST MOMMY IN THE ENTIRE WORLD" or "I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU PICKED ALL THESE SPECIAL THINGS FOR US" one more time, I may scream. LOL

It was definitely a trip to remember. I was sad to leave Beast behind, but I knew there was NO WAY a 7 month old would enjoy being in a stroller or carrier all day. Plus, Monster & Monkey couldn't have had as much fun either; especially staying @ Magic Kingdom until 2am (after a afternoon nap of course) for extra magic hours. That was definitely awesome...no lines, just pure roller coaster fun! I feel like Beast grew a foot and learned a few things while we were away. She is DEFINITELY going next time! I can't wait to get her first set of tiny pink ears!!!

Then, to top it off, we took Angie to get some highlights as a "thanks for keeping my tiny monster safe, happy, and loved while we were away" gift & Monster wanted some too! So, I talked to Hubby & he said sure, why not. They're all natural products, Nita's great with her, and it's her hair (as long as she doesn't want to dye it all or shave it!). LOL! I'm just not big on things like that. I don't need to "dye my grays" or anything like that like some people. I like the color God gave me, but Monster wanted me to try them. So, I guess they'll be in for a while and then fade into the rest of my hair eventually. No big deal. Now Monster & I have matching caramel highlights, WOOHOO! SUPER CUTE!

Of course, I am sure there will be some BMD from it, but oh well. When isn't there, right? I just hope she doesn't take it out on Monster & make her feel bad about them. She was so excited. She felt so grown up & proud. I'm sure its going to be hard enough on her to try not to be excited from WDW still. You just can't make some people happy, especially when they aren't happy in their own lives. Its ok though, Monster is such a bright girl, she'll learn how to adust someday. I just wish she could just be a kid & not have to have anxiety over whether something she chooses is going to upset the balance.

Of course she or one of her minions is probably going to read and print this "to use in court." All I can say to that, is PLEASE DO! How dare we have a normal happy family. How dare I love Monster and care for her like my own. There should be a law against that. I can't wait to put the facts in front of a judge. No need for lies on our end, the truth will speak much louder. Does she really think that lying on court documents is a good idea? She actually thinks that she can LIE and say we're making her meet us in Apex when the GRANDMA is picking up Monster IN ASHEBORO! WOW. AAAAAND BREATHE Done with all that, back to the calmness & serenity. HAHAHA

So much is changing around here & I love it! Hope everyone had a great week & here's to a wonderful weekend! HAKUNA MATATA! ;)

Sunday, January 10, 2010

Dear Angie

Dear Angie,

I just wanted to share with you & everyone else how much I appreciate everything you do for me. Not many women can say that their mother in law is truly one of their best friends. I am blessed to have you in my life. I never knew that by marrying my husband I would be gaining such a wonderful family.

You’ve not only welcomed me into your home, but your heart over the last 6 years. You’ve been here for Matthew and our girls of course, but you’ve had plenty of love and time for me as well. I never have to wonder if you love me or if you’re just putting up with me. I mean, how many Mother-in-Laws will go to a midnight showing of a teenie bopper movie about vampires just to spend time with their son’s wife? Or, let their daughter-in-law host every family event just because she is OCD and has to do it “her way” or the world will end? LOL

I know that you love me for me…even the parts of myself that I find hard to love sometimes. You are one of the reasons I am so committed to rededicating my life to the Lord. I know Matt & I have a long journey not only separately, but together, to be where we both want to be spiritually, but we will get there. Thank you so much for NOT letting it be “ok.”

You were there with me when I found out Matt & I were probably having TWINS. You listened to the heartbeat and fell in love! Then, you were there with me later that week when we lost them. You didn’t have to go through that with me, but you chose to. I really couldn’t have done that without your support.

On that note, thank you for being GRANNY to our girls. So many grandparents aren’t able to have the kind of relationship you share with our girls. We’ve never had to leave our children with a stranger or pay for a babysitter. I never have to worry about my children while they are with you. I know that you’re not only capable of caring for them, but that you would never do anything to contradict our parenting choices. In fact, I know that you listen to my requests and take them to heart.

I am SO proud of you for choosing to have the surgery you did. CONGRATULATIONS ON LOSING 40 POUNDS SO FAR!!! You deserve every bit of praise that will come your way. I know it was not an easy decision. It is a major life change for you and I will support you 10000% in your journey. Of course, I want you around for our girls (and whoever else may come along), but also for me!

When others have tried to get the best of me, you remind me that while I may not be perfect, I am the perfect wife to Matthew & mommy to our three beautiful girls. I am proud to be your favorite daughter-in-law. (yes, I know I am your only one right now, but I’ll GLADLY share the title of “co-favorite” with Brittany one day!!!) I LOVE YOU!